6 Common Marriage Mistakes
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The article "6 common marriage mistakes" is about family, it was released by Tapan Sarkar.
Every marriage starts with a lot of hope and dreamabout life long association fileld with love andtogetherness. But really few marriages fulfill the hopesof the participants in totality.There are various reasons for this but here we singleout 6 of thsoe.
Every young person who is planningmarriage should be aware of these most common pitfalls. 1.
Marrying for the sake of love without firstchecking the depth of love.No denying that all relationships satrt with a sense oflove and mutual liking. Committing to a long termrelationship like marriage solely on the basis of thatfeeling of love is a mistkae. Bceause most of the timethis kind of feeling is superficial and can not passthe test of time. Romantic feeling dies as time passesand far more important issues like 'family background','values', 'religious faith', 'financial stability'raise their head, and these isuses are of realimportance which almost every body with feeling ofmutual love ignore.2. Marrying someone who does not share an interest orhobby.While marriage with a person who does not share aninterest or hobby does not itself make the marriageunstable, presence of such an interest or hobby canmake life more enjoyable for both the partners. Andthis can make a real difference so while selecting liefpartner this aspect must be taken into account. But for reason or other this aspect is oftenoverlooked before mrariage.
And efforts start aftermarriage to adapt the partner to one's own interest ordeveolp a new common interest. While this is not animpossible task, the process of adapting may become un-palatable and may lead to unstable marriage.3.
Not knowing what questions to ask for checkingcompatibility.As discussed earlier that marriage decision based oninitial sense of love may be counter productive.
Tomake a marriage successful one should do simlpehomework.
Knowledge of future partner's background andcertain other things can play a crucial role here. Butmany young persons either do not try to know all theseimportant facts or do not know what are importantaspects s/he must know to make their marriagesuccessful.4.
Thinking proper and careful quarries may offendher/him.One may think that too much investigation abuot futurepartner's back ground may not be a good idea. As theother partner may find it distasteful. This kind ofthought process keeps many young boy and woman fromasking the right questions before marriage.5.
Dependnig too much on a friend or relativesrecommendation.A sizable number of young boy and woman often getmarried on the recommendation of relatives or friends.While generally relatives and friends are regarded aswell wishers, marrying on their recommendation is not agood idea.
As their knowledge of a person can neverequal to the knowledge the person has about herself orhimself. So the person to be marreid is in a muchbetter position to select compatible life partner. Bestway out is acting on tehir recommendation only aftersuccessful completion of compatibility check.6.
Getting mraried to make somebody else glad.Sometimes persons get married to make someone elsehappy. It may be parents or it may be relatives. Thereis no problem in making someone glad if that does notjeopardize one's own mrariage.
But most of time in suchcases marriages occur without exercising enoughcaution.
As a result one may end up marrying someonenot copmatible. If you're really serious to make your marriage anexciting, loving and enriching experience you need tobe careful about the above thnigs before your marriage.Tapan Sarkar About the Author
Tapan Sarkar, Ask right questions before your marriage.Http://findyoursoulmatetoday.Com
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